60 prompt cards to remember your love story, reconnect with your partner, and remind yourself of the immense value your partner brings to you.
It's not how it used to be, and it's scary and you never quite thought you'd be here.
For over a decade, I’ve been supporting couples who are stuck in a rut of emotional unhappiness, ongoing conflict and a loss of their romantic connection.
All couples crave “The old days”, and are hanging on and fighting for their relationship because you wish it could go back to how it was when you first fell in love.
Right now, you’re probably fighting more often, feeling misunderstood, rarely in the mood for intimacy and feeling stuck in a place you never thought you’d be, but you don’t know how to get out of.
While it’s important to improve your conflict patterns and focus on the issues you’re having, so often couples forget to focus on what you DO have, which is usually 80%+ good stuff, and get hyper-focused on the 20% that you don’t love.
The truth is, when you fall in love, it’s because you thought, respected, believed, and looked at your partner in a different, most positive and hopeful way, which you’re probably not doing anymore.
I’m here to help your mind and heart go digging to uncover what you’ve forgotten.
I’ve designed 60-question prompts to help you start to nurture your relationship again, rather than attacking it.
Introducing: My Relationship Reconnection Question Deck
You can use these cards with your partner in a variety of ways:
Ask them all on a long road trip.
Choose one card every night for 60 days.
Text each other the prompts while you’re apart from each other.
Write letters/notes to each other using the prompts.
Use them as nightly chat prompts.
Set a time/date for when you will complete these to stay accountable.
My Private Practice is well known and respected for our couples counselling, and for good reason. We are a team of deeply passionate, expert relationship therapists with many years of experience and endless training in relationship counselling.
If you're not already working with one of our incredible couples therapists, please reach out so we can masterfully guide you to:
Conscious and effective communication that feels good.
Emotional reconnection that doesn't only happen after a big fight.
Resolve and repair ruptures, fights and misunderstandings quickly.
Re-build your emotional, romantic and sexual connection, so that you're excited to come home and feeling alive again.
Build a shared vision together for your future that is relevant to the stage of life you're at now.
Find the balance between focusing on your relationship and supporting each of you as individuals.